A new survey in the U.K. sets in stark relief the toll the pandemic is taking on mothers: Women with kids are 45 – 47 % more likely than men with children to have forever  lost or quit their jobs since February. They are 14% more likely to have been furloughed.

The load on mothers expands beyond job losses and decreased hours. Mothers are shouldering the bulk of the time devotion of new duties related to childcare and housework. They’re obligating 10.3 hours every day to looking after the kids—2.3 hours more than fathers. Fathers are passing more time on such activities generally—double the hours they passed on childcare in 2014-2015, in fact—yet men matched women’s household output only in families where the mother had kept her job and the father had lost his. 

Opportunity gaps:

 Before lockdown, mothers did around 60% of the unbroken work hours of fathers,” according to the study of 3,600 families with two opposite-sex parents by Institute for Fiscal Studies and the UCL Institute of Education.

The study also points to shades of parents’ new at-home existence that are easily missed. It let out, for occurrence, a sort of child-interruption gap: Moms are far more likely than dads to be interrupted during their paid working hours. Nearly half—47%—of mothers’ working hours are bust between professional duties and other activities like childcare. That figure is 30% for fathers.

Those kid cameos on Zoom are sweet, but the study warns that moms’ multitasking is a risk when “concentrated work time is important for performance.”

These statistics may not come as a surprise to parents currently homeschooling while working—or in worse situations, homeschooling while looking for a job—but they underscore how vital childcare is as nations emerge from shutdowns and economies look to recover. There will be no “normal” without reopened daycare centers and schools.  

Both children and adults alike prosper on routines so it is important to set out some kind of structure for the day.

“Just make sure you are adding plenty of free play and reading time. If you have a garden, make sure you take advantage of that and pass at least one hour there a day,” Urban says. “Remember we need to be isolated from other people, but gradually being outdoors is very advantageous.”

Louise Pentland, a TV presenter, best-selling author and parenting vlogger, adds that while she and her two children – eight-year-old Darcy and two-year-old Pearl – love having a routine, it is so important to be practical about how much you can achieve in a day, specifically when it comes to your child’s education.

For thousands of parents who have been asked to work remotely, this means extra challenges when trying to balance the demands of work life and home life while coronavirus remains a concern. 

Risks of the kid-interruption gap:

Under lockdown that could mean sneaking in an online yoga class with your child, finding time to play catch or giving children a couple of extra hugs throughout the day. “Working adults with children have been gifted a rare opportunity to take a break and experience recess and playtime d it too will pass,” says Haiis.

Avoid judging others or yourself – on what you can get done each day. People at all levels of a company are adjusting to a new normal, including your boss. And while Sir Isaac Newton’s quarantine during the plague was undoubtedly more productive than yours, don’t give up just because you haven’t discovered your own version of the theory of gravity.

Just tucking your cranky colleagues into bed each night is an accomplishment. And it should feel like it.

 I conducted an interview from inside the bathtub with two locked doors between myself and a screaming two-year-old who decided naps were, in fact, optional. I’ve perfected my poker face in video calls while my youngest silently writhes on the ground outside my home office, holds up signs demanding more snacks or sometimes just glares at me with more disrespect than she should in any way be proficient of.

It’s very tough when your kids are around you during working from home. It’s also probably the only reason I’m still in journalism. If you haven’t worked from home while parenting yet, or daily, you’re about to find out why.

As schools close, people get serious about social distancing and workplaces mandate going remote, the coronavirus presents us with yet another twist — doing all the things at the same time. Bonus twist — this will crash people with kids separately depending on the age of those kids.

It’s like a snow day, but for a pandemic:

I’ve collected tips from parents who shared their points about working from home with kids. The supposition here is you won’t be out reporting, photographing, recording or in a studio or newsroom. And since my 12- and 9-year-olds will handle this very differently than babies or teens, I’ve also divided this into different age groups, and consulted some of the subjects themselves.

Two more things: If you’re dealing with worry about the coronavirus, your kids as likely as not are, too.

Also, one place to put that worry is into figuring out how kids in your community are going to be getting food they rely on their schools for if those schools close down. What’s your district planning?  The PTA?  Area churches?  Food banks? A few calls might bring answers that help you help out.

This list is certainly not exhaustive, so send your tips and I’ll try to include them. And one thing is that works for all ages

(toddlers, younger and teen ager) but those sweet babies: Give your kids age-appropriate jobs. They can earn a salary while they’re home (I give out stars, which, when accumulated, can be traded in for things like late bedtimes, screen time, Robux or gummy Coke bottles.)

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